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  1. Patricia Yager Delagrange
    December 26, 2011 @ 4:53 pm

    Hey Alica! I think a lot of us have to-do lists that we endeavor to follow and feel good when we can tick them off, logging them as “done”, however I try not to feel overwhelmed by them. I actually didn’t used to have lists, and feel better when I at least have written them down and try to accomplish them as I go along in my life – taking care of family and myself along the way. We can become too tethered to those lists and never feel good about any day, if the list is still “there”. I don’t think I’ll ever have an empty list, so I have to enjoy each day as it comes and do the best I can and be happy with any tasks I can do. If I can’t do any, then I’ll try again later.
    Patti

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      December 26, 2011 @ 11:26 pm

      Yes, I do so much better with a list I don’t try to have an empty list just try and keep a vague idea of what needs to be done floating around.

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  2. Joe Iriarte
    December 26, 2011 @ 5:32 pm

    From the middle of August to the middle of June (if not longer) my to-do list never ever reaches zero, and some of those low priorities never rise high enough to get done, and only get deleted once they’re moot. And yeah, I’m guilty of thinking that if I just work hard enough, if I just destroy myself enough, I’ll be able to accomplish all my goals. So I like your metaphor, if only because surfing is a nice, laid-back way of looking at things. I need to remember that some things just need to slide. Cool post!

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      December 26, 2011 @ 11:28 pm

      Thanks Joe! I don’t try and get my list empty, but I do try and get a few things crossed off every day 🙂 Don;’ drive yourself nuts and remember to put things that are important to you on the list- watching a movie, reading, hiking, whatever it is that you do, it’s just as important as doing the dishes 🙂

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  3. Emma Burcart
    December 26, 2011 @ 6:04 pm

    I like your husband’s quote. I try to focus on going with the flow instead of batteling upstream. The wave goes along with my analogy, so I’m going to use it. Balance can be hard, especially when it goes against our natural instincts. That’s when I think we have to take the time to figure out what is under those instincts and habbits. Maybe there is some fear we can deal with that will lead to balance. I recently realized that life doesn’t have to be about suffering, and it has opened a whole new door for me. It may seem small, but it’s big for me.

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      December 26, 2011 @ 11:30 pm

      It’s very big, we don;t have to suffer, we can say no to things we don;t want to do and yes to those we do want to do. Going with the flow is great- I use it a lot too. Thanks Emma.

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  4. greenfreaksheathermama hawkes
    December 26, 2011 @ 7:10 pm

    i’m a listy, grafty, color coding sort of person too. it causes me a lot of suffering when shit starts getting all over the place. i think maybe i need some surfing lessons, i am sorta getting tired of being pounded by the waves.

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      December 26, 2011 @ 11:34 pm

      LOL- yes the more flexibility in life the easier. It’s much easier to move with what’s happening then trying to force life into a graph

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  5. Julie Glover
    December 26, 2011 @ 7:13 pm

    I loved this post! Just what we need to hear as we come into the new year and make 500 resolutions we can’t possibly keep. I also have a to-do list and order it (pretty much in my head) as must-do’s and desire-do’s. I have learned to let more things go as I age and get a bird’s eye view. I love the wave analogy, though. I am SO going to use that!

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  6. Lesann
    December 28, 2011 @ 3:05 am

    I have lists of things to make list about. I save old lists. I’ve even framed completed lists when I needed confirmation it was possible to complete everything on a list. I love lists. Love them.

    Lists are the only way I get anything done, have any clue where I need to be on any given day, and keep me from curling up on the floor of the closet when I can’t remember who I am. Life won’t always be this busy. There are days when I love surfing and others when it actually feel good to let the wave pummel me under the water.

    You gotta take the good with the bad, the up with the down, and the surf with the tide.

    PS – loved the song…another one to add to my iTunes list. List! Hah!

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      December 28, 2011 @ 1:26 pm

      I’m glad you liked the song! Lists are crazy important! I have no idea what I would do without mine! I think I need to embrace being pummeled I always fight it.
      Thanks Lesann

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  7. Jolyse Barnett
    December 30, 2011 @ 8:13 pm

    Thanks for the new quote and New Year’s inspiration. I’m going to surf life this year! 🙂 Also, thanks for introducing me to Seth Lakeman. Nice. Hang in there in your happy place, Alica. We’re all in this with you.

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    • alicamckennajohnson
      January 2, 2012 @ 9:33 pm

      Thanks Jolyse! Surfing just helps me focus better it so much more fluid. And Seth Lakeman sighs- he’s so great and pretty- he might wind up in a book someday.

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