Kilian where are you???
So just now I had a moment of sheer and utter panic, and I am sharing it with you because:
1. Everyone is fine and
2. Those of you who are writers can pass this onto non-writers so they understand us better.
My dear friend and editor Kilian was supposed to come and pick me up about 10:30 so we could go to Mary’s house for critique group at 11:00. She normally calls to let me know when she leaves her house—mostly because I’m always running late. So, no call. Hmmm. Maybe she is running late, or maybe she lost her phone again. I open the door to listen for her car.
10:40 I call her, no answer.
10:45 I check her Facebook—she hasn’t posted anything in twelve hours!
I look outside; what ifs start to whisper in my ear.
10:50 I call again, no answer. The what ifs get louder and I realize a key plot point, I don’t know where Kilian is staying. You see she is house sitting, and all I know are cross streets, major cross streets, not enough to go on.
I call Mary, who is calm for now, but my panic will spread like the flu through a daycare. We post a note on Facebook and see if anyone responds and each try calling her again.
Now you, as a rational person, might think I’m over reacting. However if this was a movie or a book you’d be yelling at the main character to check it out, and something is wrong.
“But Alica, this isn’t a book or a movie,” says a rational person who is no longer my friend.
In my head it is ALWAYS a book, not a movie because the book is always better. I am always prepared for people to burst into song, for dinosaurs to run down the street, for Thor to declare his undying love for me.
Art by marvelous Roland
“No, Thor, I mustn’t. I’m married.”
“Alica, I’ve tried to stay away but my body burns for you. My heart breaks every moment we’re apart.” He clasps my hand placing on his chest. I do my best to feel his breaking heart through those hot, firm, muscular pectorals.
Oh, um, sorry, anyway. . .
I have, at this point, imagined poor Kilian in a multitude of scenarios, waiting for someone to notice she is missing. Hoping a dear and true friend will notice her unusual behavior and rescue her.
The only clue we have is the couple she is house sitting for are part of her Mah Jongg group, at least I think they are. And her group is from her temple. But I don’t know what temple she goes to.
Photo by Kristen Shoemaker
Facebook saves the day! Kilian was tagged in a photo reading Torah at Temple Emanu-El, and the temple has a Facebook page. Yes! Kilian, I’m on my way!
I call the temple and do my very best impression of a rational person. The lovely woman on the other end of the phone wants to wait an hour before calling the Mah Jongg group, does that seem reasonable? I say yes, because it does and it is, but my brain isn’t reasonable and I keep imagining Kilian hanging on for dear life waiting to be rescued!
I call my husband, who has put up with my crazy for 15 years. He is calm but understands my worry. Says it sounds like I’ve done what I can, but if I’m still worried, I could start calling hospitals.
I’d love to say I didn’t go that far. I’d love to pretend I was calm and rational and together enough to also be thinking, she could just have forgotten, maybe out with other friends having fun.
That would be a lie, I called them. No, Kilian, which means she could still be needing rescue!
Mary calls the Temple this time, the lovely lady has now been infected with my panic, but I’m sure a much milder strain, and agrees to start calling the Mah Jongg group.
And we wait. I suck at waiting. My brain goes a mile a minute, but I do my best.
Then Kilian calls. I want to cry with relief.
You see her phone was on vibrate and had been on a table when she lay down to nap, but was in the middle of the floor when she woke up—a clear sign some frantic, possibly deranged, person had been calling her repeatedly.
Kilian simply forgot to put the meeting in her calendar (the date had changed a few times in her defense and unlike me she has a social life). So Kilian was napping safely.
Not on the floor unable to move because a tiger had snuck into the house.
Photo by L E Carmichael
Aliens weren’t holding her hostage making her teach them proper grammar so they could blend in better and take over the world.
Kilian hadn’t been hiding from zombies in the closet, her phone on the other side.
No she was napping. I wonder if she was dreaming of weird buzzing insects from the incessant phone calls someone, not me, was making?
Anyway there is a look inside a writer’s brain. Scary, I know. But now hopefully you understand why we freak out when you’re late and forget to call. Or why we get upset when someone says something and we aren’t sure if it was a joke or a dig at us. Our brains create plots faster than the speed of light, and the more dramatic, the better.
“Alica, I’ve tried to stay away but my body burns for you. My heart breaks every moment we’re apart. But as a consolation prize, you can watch while Loki and I have sex on the table.” <– fixed it for you. 😉
And yes, I totally imagine disaster if I can't get ahold of someone. Clearly the only rational explanation is they've been kidnapped by aliens/eaten by velociraptors/abducted by sexy pirates.
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I think you have a delightful brain, Alica! But then mine works the same way. I get called a worry-wart on a regular basis, but really I’m not a particularly anxious nor pessimistic person (usual characteristics of worry-warts). I just have an extremely active imagination!
As soon as the what-ifs start I’m gone, thanks Kassandra
I feel so cherished and grateful for friends who care enough to notice that I have dropped off the face of the earth and are willing to check up on me. It could have been something serious. I *am* all alone in this house, and there *is* a lovely swimming pool and things *do* happen. Only not today. Now the worst thing that happened is I have to buy a new keyboard because I spewed all over this one laughing while drinking tea. Thank you for carin.
Of course! I’m glad you were okay but my poor brain- it went to town with the what-ifs
*caring* Crap. I need an editor for myself.
Alica, you make perfect sense to me girl. I would have reacted the same way. 🙂
Like minded people, thanks Karen 🙂
You are not alone, Alica. You don’t want to be around me if someone is late. Logically I know there is a reason. That doesn’t stop my imagination. 🙂
My brain can be a very scary place.
I should read this to my husband, who thinks I let my imagination run a little too wild when he doesn’t check in when he’s supposed to. LOL. Now I have a legitimate reason to offer: I AM A WRITER! WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?!!!
Glad Kilian is doing just fine. And now you have all of those contact numbers for her…just in case the aliens do land.
Yes, all hubbies should read this I think it’ll help or scare them 🙂
What about if you are already married to a writer?
This all sounds quite reasonable to me.
Thanks Stephanie 🙂
I do the same thing! If someone is late or doesn’t call to check-in when they said they would, my brain lets my imagination take over.
Must have been a car jacking by someone being chased by the space police!
Or a nuclear explosion knocked out all the cell connections … nope mine still works.
Um, maybe they are in the midst of a torrid love affair and their lover has become obsessed, tied them up and forbid them to ever leave!
Or… there’s a traffic jam because the zombie apocalypse just happened and nobody knows!
Or maybe a magical shield was erected around my house and now NO ONE CAN GET TO ME!
Nah. The zombie apocalypse sounds much more logical… I DO live in Florida after all – land of those who think it’s smart to ingest bath salts. O.o
Usually, the culprit is that their cell battery died or they were caught up in crazy FL traffic. Nothing exciting. Nothing dramatic like zombies. Which is probably good since I’m not properly stocked up for that yet. 😉
Nothing like living with a writer, I say! 😀
We always make for interesting conversation and panic attacks to say the least, thanks Jennifer
Hmm. I figured she was probably asleep. 🙂
Uh-oh. All my nap comments are coming home to roost.
No, I just wanted to point out that a few of us writers live on the actual planet Earth. 😉 Mostly.
😛 fine be a practical writer LOL- thanks Bill